Why Honesty Matters More Than Ever
Honesty can Save Your Relationships
Relationships between people are built only based on trust. The main and practical way to maintain this relationship is to tell the truth. You are trustworthy, it is very important to maintain this place.
You borrowed some money from someone you know. Or you took the rest from a shopkeeper. You told them to pay it tomorrow. Now for some reason you could not manage the money. Now you have an idea about what to do! You lack an idea. You could not pay the money, so you did not meet him.
Protect Your Reputation and Choose the Truth
However, if you go to him and explain, brother, I told him yesterday that I would pay the money today, but brother, I could not manage the money in any way. After hearing this, no person will be unhappy. You have to go to him and express your shame.
If you keep yourself away from him due to the shame of not being able to pay the money, the distance will increase. The distance increases so much, which results in a crack in the relationship. Instead of the trust you had in yourself, you will become a source of hatred for him. The relationship will end through hatred.
The Secret to Strong Relationships
If you understand that your words have value, you will never try to hide yourself. Instead, you will admit your inadequacy. Even if you cannot keep your word, the place of becoming a source of hatred for him will be closed, and the place of your relationship will not be damaged. To keep the place of your relationship right, you must have shame within you.
No comments